Love is Thicker Than Water
My husband felt the tug years before I did. That burning desire to  have a child, and become a father. When I was finally ready for such a  life-changing occurrence, we found ourselves unable to conceive.
It is a frustrating time, when you realize that the uneducated, the  poverty stricken, and the unfit seem to be having babies left right and  center, and you, a loving, married and highly successful couple with the  means to give a child a wonderful and rich life are coming up empty.
After doctor’s appointments, and exploring the options in modern  fertility treatments, the realization hit me: I didn’t care about  procreating, I just wanted to be a parent.
Almost 2 years later, we adopted a beautiful baby girl from China.
I can’t imagine loving a child more. Bailey has been the light in our  lives from the moment we laid eyes on her. During the long and heart  wrenching wait to meet our daughter, I fell deeply in love with the  image in my mind of this wonderful little girl who would bring great joy  to our lives. The magical moment when they brought her to us from the  orphanage was one I will never forget: the moment that I became a  parent.
We have always spoken openly about Bailey’s adoption, and how the  person who carried her could not keep her, so she went to the orphanage  and they cared for her until we could come for her.
Somehow, children seem to grasp both the simplicity and complexity of  situations with a wisdom and clarity that is way greater than their  years.
One day, when she was about 5, I heard her talking to a young friend  about where she came from. Bailey very matter of factly summed up her  situation by saying: “ My Mommy didn’t carry me in her tummy, she carried me in her heart.”
Families are made in many different ways. Giving birth and motherhood  are not mutually exclusive. Bonds exist when love is unconditional, and  sometimes we find that LOVE, not blood, is thicker than water.
photo: Spencer Jones

Love is Thicker Than Water

My husband felt the tug years before I did. That burning desire to have a child, and become a father. When I was finally ready for such a life-changing occurrence, we found ourselves unable to conceive.

It is a frustrating time, when you realize that the uneducated, the poverty stricken, and the unfit seem to be having babies left right and center, and you, a loving, married and highly successful couple with the means to give a child a wonderful and rich life are coming up empty.

After doctor’s appointments, and exploring the options in modern fertility treatments, the realization hit me: I didn’t care about procreating, I just wanted to be a parent.

Almost 2 years later, we adopted a beautiful baby girl from China.

I can’t imagine loving a child more. Bailey has been the light in our lives from the moment we laid eyes on her. During the long and heart wrenching wait to meet our daughter, I fell deeply in love with the image in my mind of this wonderful little girl who would bring great joy to our lives. The magical moment when they brought her to us from the orphanage was one I will never forget: the moment that I became a parent.

We have always spoken openly about Bailey’s adoption, and how the person who carried her could not keep her, so she went to the orphanage and they cared for her until we could come for her.

Somehow, children seem to grasp both the simplicity and complexity of situations with a wisdom and clarity that is way greater than their years.

One day, when she was about 5, I heard her talking to a young friend about where she came from. Bailey very matter of factly summed up her situation by saying: “ My Mommy didn’t carry me in her tummy, she carried me in her heart.

Families are made in many different ways. Giving birth and motherhood are not mutually exclusive. Bonds exist when love is unconditional, and sometimes we find that LOVE, not blood, is thicker than water.

photo: Spencer Jones